My friend Bill called me out of the blue today, and after the usual greetings of “Hey Billy!” and “Hey Tommy!” there was a pause and we both said, at almost the same time, “It’s good to hear your voice.”
We talked a bit – about life, our kids, and so on, but I pondered those words we’d said, and it got me thinking…
Those words have become part of my vocabulary of late – in part because – well, because I’ve learned a little bit about life, and I did that because I’ve had a little experience at the edges of it.
So – if you talk to me sometime, and I say that – it’s because I realize that life is short – often much shorter than we think, whether that’s for us, or for someone we love.
We can read letters from people who have made the transition out of our lives to live on in our memories.
We can look at pictures of them and recall the times we had making them.
We can listen to recordings of them talk, or tell stories of their youth.
But we can’t converse with them anymore.
And so, if you ever hear me say that, “It’s good to hear your voice.” – it’s because it is good.
It means you haven’t made that transition from this life to the next.
It means we can still talk.
…or maybe cry.
We can have a chat over cup of bad coffee (usually if I’m the one making it, although much to my surprise I accidentally figured out how to make good coffee a couple of months ago)
Heck, we could do something strange, and have a chat over good coffee…
And catch up on old times.
Relive old memories.
Make new ones.
But we can only do that if we can hear each others voices.
And we could.