Yesterday…
Our yard was a veritable haven for dandelions… Several weeks of broken mower and no time to get it fixed left me with two things:
1. Grass that was dead brown
2. Dandelions that were a foot high.
Yesterday evening, after the sea of yellow flowers had shut themselves down for the night, I finally had time to mow, so I did. This morning I came out and noticed several things.
1. Where I’d missed. Clearly.
The dandelions that were left all had little yellow warning signs saying, “Look where Tom didn’t mow! Nyah Nyah Nyah…”
2. Dandelions…
Things I don’t want in the yard, thrived if I ignored them.
3. The grass itself, something I do want in the yard, died if I ignored it.
My lawn was a perfect example of that.
• Leave it alone, and bad things will take root. Sometimes deeper than the good things.
• Leave it alone, and the good things may easily be overshadowed by the bad.
• Try to fix it when you can’t see clearly, and you truly won’t get it all. You won’t see it all to get. The weeds will come back, and they’ll be very clear.
How do you fix that?
How do you keep the dandelions out of your life?
Well, in a lot of ways, you don’t.
No matter what, they’ll come.
Little poofy things floating over the fence so easily, with no hint as to how hard it will be to get rid of them if you let them stay.
Sometimes they come when you least expect it – they just float into your yard at night and take root, and unless you’re actively taking care of your yard, you won’t see them until those little yellow warning flags come out – and by then the roots are deep.
So…
Keep the lawns of your life mowed.
Feed them.
Weed them.
Water them.
There are many things in life more exciting than weeding and watering – but if you don’t actively stop the dandelions when they’re small, they will take root, they will multiply to the point where they’ll advertise to the world what you’re not taking care of, and they will take far more time to get out, than it would have taken to keep them out…
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August 12, 2010 at 6:41 pm
Karen
This observation, like the dandelion root, is deep!
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August 13, 2010 at 7:33 am
Marcie Hartzell
So true, Tom. I was thinking today about my 16 yr old son who recently went to live with his dad. I haven’t been communicating with him nearly enough since he left (our communication was never that great even when he was in the house). So I was thinking of ways to keep a relationship going with a teenager who doesn’t do Facebook or email. Not an easy task, but I have to take care of it or I will completely lose out on him. Nothing but dandelions. So this fit right in with what God was saying to me this morning. Thanks for the visual…..and good luck with that lawn! (or lack thereof)
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August 15, 2010 at 5:41 pm
tomroush
Yeah, Marcie – it’s astonishing what kinds of things the dandelions can represent – the whole story popped into my head in the blink of an eye – literally – the morning after I mowed the lawn and saw all the dandelions I’d missed, I had a pretty heavy duty celestial ‘aha’ moment there.
I wish you well with your son. Try sending him cards – so there’s something that he can feel and touch. it might be years before you realize the effect they had on him, but I still have a box of cards someone sent me that I treasure. Those cards, Marcie, meant someone cared.
God and I were having a chat the other day (okay, I was praying) – and it seemed there was such a strong message from Him – very simple: “Love your kids.” That was it. No more. No less. “Love your kids.” And it seems that we as parents think we have to tell our kids to do stuff – what to do, what not to do, and often we find ourselves – without knowing it – expressing some kind of disapproval that works backwards to what we want and hurts them for years. God will do the work He wants to do, our job, hard as it may seem sometimes, is not to condemn them, but simply to love them. Thinking along those lines – I had another ‘aha’ moment in my life that I shared awhile back – it’s here:
https://tomroush.wordpress.com/2010/05/02/the-view-from-the-balcony%E2%80%A6-forgiveness-writing-in-the-dirt-and-%E2%80%9Cno-worries%E2%80%9D/
Take care Marcie – good luck, and God bless
Tom
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